‘We can practically finish each other’s sentences’: I’m getting married in 2023. I want a prenup. She wants to merge our finances. What's my next move?

We discussed this a couple of years ago, but that’s it. How long before getting married should I start this process? I’m also concerned that she may get offended even though she didn’t seem offended when we talked about it previously.  She also wants to combine our money, which makes me very nervous. I’ve been married once before, but never in my 50 years of life have I ever shared checking/savings accounts. She is a very sweet lady and... + full article