‘Love yourself and protect yourself’: I care for my mother, 90, and husband, 73. He contributes nothing. I work and pay all the bills. What hope do I have?

“‘I am embarrassed to tell this to anyone else in my life.’” I am healthy and I will keep working until the end, but I now realize that I am using my savings to keep up, and he is trying to find a job without any luck. I know it is my fault that all these years I allowed him to have it easy. I never demanded anything. I have no way out of this situation.  We don’t have kids, but he had two of his own before we met. I embrace them like... + full article